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Understanding Emotional Dysregulation in Kids: A Nervous System Approach

Dr. Kirsten Foullong
February 28, 2025
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Understanding Emotional Dysregulation in Kids: A Nervous System Approach 

Take a deep breath with me. If you’re here, it’s likely because your days feel overwhelming—filled with emotional outbursts, intense mood swings, heartbreaking meltdowns, and a child who seems to have no impulse control. For many parents navigating emotional dysregulation, this isn’t just an occasional tough day—it’s every day.

You’ve probably spent late nights searching for answers, consulting teachers, therapists, and doctors, hoping for a breakthrough. You’ve tried everything—reward charts, discipline strategies, essential oils, deep breathing exercises, supplements—the list feels endless. Maybe you’ve even turned to medications for ADHD, anxiety, or depression, hoping for some relief.

And yet, deep down, you’re still searching. Searching for a solution that doesn’t just manage symptoms but gets to the root cause. You want a natural, long-term approach that helps your child thrive—not just get by. If that resonates with you, you’re in the right place. Let’s talk about a different way forward.

A Different Understanding of Your Child's Struggles

Here's something that might change everything about how you view your child's struggles: the root cause of emotional dysregulation often lies within the brain and nervous system, but not in the way you might have been told. This isn't just about a "chemical imbalance" – it's about understanding your child's nervous system from a functional standpoint.

When your child's nervous system becomes overstressed, imbalanced, and dysregulated, their emotions and behavior naturally follow suit. And here's the most important thing to remember: this isn't simply a genetic condition or a reflection of your parenting. The root cause may be simpler and more straightforward than you think.

Understanding the Nervous System Connection

The Autonomic Nervous System (ANS) controls emotional responses through two key branches: 

  1. The sympathetic nervous system (fight or flight) 
  2. The parasympathetic nervous system (rest, regulate, and digest)

So you can think of your child's nervous system like a car with a sensitive gas pedal and brake system. When working properly, it can smoothly accelerate and brake as needed. But sometimes, due to various factors, it can get stuck in "high gear" – what we call a sympathetic dominant state or "fight-or-flight" mode. This imbalance and overactive state is known as dysautonomia and nervous system dysregulation.

The "Perfect Storm": How Did We Get Here?

Several factors can contribute to nervous system dysregulation:

  • Early life stress, including maternal stress during pregnancy
  • Birth interventions like C-sections, forceps, or vacuum extraction
  • The overuse of antibiotics and other medications, plus environmental toxins and poor diet, which disrupts the microbiome and gut-brain connection

Together, these factors create neurological imbalances, leading to emotional dysregulation.

Beyond Traditional Approaches

While behavioral strategies and medications have their place, they often only mask the symptoms rather than the underlying root cause. That's why many parents find that even when medications help calm their child's symptoms, they're still searching for a more complete solution – a neurologically-focused one that addresses the root cause of their child's challenges - which is needed for lasting change.

Finding Hope and Solutions

The good news is that understanding this nervous system connection opens up new possibilities for helping your child. Just as the nervous system can become dysregulated, it can also be guided back into balance through appropriate support and care.

Some key things to consider:

  • Your child's behavior isn't a reflection of poor parenting or a lack of discipline
  • These challenges aren't simply something they'll "grow out of"
  • There are ways to measure and address nervous system imbalances
  • A comprehensive approach that considers the whole nervous system can make a real difference

Moving Forward

If you're feeling overwhelmed by your child's emotional dysregulation, remember that you're not alone, and there is hope. At Pinnacle Chiropractic, we understand that the nervous system plays a crucial role in your child's emotional regulation, and finding balance often starts there. We would love to help!

At Pinnacle Chiropractic, we use cutting-edge technology called INSiGHT Scans to pinpoint, measure, and identify subluxation, sympathetic dominance, and nervous system dysregulation—factors that may be contributing to your child’s emotional challenges. By addressing these underlying issues, we can help restore balance to their nervous system, creating calmer, more connected days for your family.

Please don’t hesitate to reach out to Pinnacle Chiropractic today! With the right care, your child can experience life with greater ease, focus, and emotional stability. If you’re not local to us, check out the PX Docs directory to find a PX Docs office near you.

Remember, your child's emotional struggles aren't your fault, and seeking help isn't a sign of failure—it’s a sign of love and commitment to their well-being.

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